Chyy5 wrote:The woman I so much love has been taken me for granted. There is a guy in Malaysia that takes her time all the time.
I have tried severally to stop her from contacting the guy but she still does. I am not the kind of guy that beats up a lady otherwise I would have beaten her up very well.
The so called Malaysian guy doesn't provide any of her needs. In fact, from their heartbreaking chats I read, there was a time the guy told her she is free to date any other guy for money that she shouldn't depend on him for any benefit.
My girl told him that she's not in for money. This is a girl I love with all my heart. I've been enduring this for long thinking she will change.
I've had heart to heart talk severally with her — telling her how pained I am. Yet every night she will be on WhatsApp call with this guy for close to 3 hours after work.
Their WhatsApp chat breaks my heart each time I intrude to read. She keeps telling the guy that she doesn't have anybody and even when the guy argued, she told him he will confirm when he Sëx her.
It kept me weak yet I continued loving her. Just last week my cousin that is to travel to the states told me to come over to her place.
Meanwhile, my girl has been having issues with accommodation. Where she stays isn't really okay and her rent will expire ending of this month.
I thought it's wise to rent the place for my gal. I took her to the place and we concluded with my cousin; she agreed to leave the place for her and even auctioned all her property for her which is supposed to amount to 200k, but my cousin decided to collect 150k because of me.
I collected her account details and told her I will transfer the money to her including the house rent so she can pay the landlord to avoid extra agent fees.
As we were going back, my gal was busy apologizing to her Malaysian guy why she wasn't able to pick his calls because the guy has been calling when we were there.
She told the guy she went out with her house agent to search for an accommodation. I was mad.
I am now being referred to as a house agent. I forcefully collected her phone to call the guy. She almost died. She threw herself on the bed and was crying, pleading I shouldn't call. I left her house.
Meanwhile, she's having issues raising deposits since she's a DSA. As God may have it, I have some funds to help her out but due to her behaviour, I've decided to move on.
She's been calling and pleading but I know it's all because of the house and deposits since she's not willing to let the guy go.
I love her so much and it breaks my heart. I have called her severally and pleaded with her on how hurtful I feel seeing her chats with that guy, yet she continued.
This is a guy that doesn't care about her needs, but she kept glued to him.
I have endured much, hence, I am walking away. It pains, yes it pains, but I have no choice.