8 Mistakes You Made
Mistake 1: Intro: Hey
Using "hey" to start a chat with a woman is boring. In fact, it's an insult when used with men. You can use it with your fellow guys, not with women. It's boring. Most busy people won't reply "hey." Only use it with your male best friends.
Mistake 2: Apology: Forgive my manners, Dear.
Why did you apologize? It's because you don't want to offend her which means, you're a nice guy. A GMC won't care if she gets offended or not.
When you talked about replying you after 5 months to her, it added value to her personality. She felt like a celebrity. Your sense of humor after that was what diluted your needy second opener.
When you become a GMC, you'll use possessive pronouns or pet names. The word "dear" could've been: honey, my naugty girl, my enemy, my lil bad girl, etc.
Mistake 3: Explanation: I'm an extrovert...
Why are you telling her you're an extrovert? Did she ask you? Now listen, you told her because your instinct had told you, you were talking too much.
You felt you needed to explain so she'd understand you and not get angry. For her to ignore you for 5 months, your brain has already told you she could do worse. You're scared to offend her = Mr. Nice Guy.
And also, women like introverts who are smart and outspoken more. They see extroverts as people who can easily reveal secrets. Telling her you're an extrovert reduced your mark.
You shouldn't have told her your name yet until she asks. Don't give out everything too early or easily. Keep your name, location, pictures, and other details as a challenge. Reveal after she has proved her worth, passed some tests, or fun quiz.
You'll soon lack what to talk about except you read our FemaleSextapes book which teaches how to hold down a conversation for as long as you want with anyone, especially women.
Mistake 4: Value: It got sugar like you in it.
This is a value giving statement. You shouldn't give a woman value unnecessarily. When this value accumulates, her ego will becomes bigger and she'll start misbehaving.
You won't realize you were the cause of her behavior. You gave her too much values and compliments. Make her work for your value or validation and not handing it over to her just like that.
Telling her it got sugar like her = you're a sweet, beautiful girl. And this will make her see you as a nice guy. Which means, she will not like to date you except you have money to offer.
Mistake 5: Compliment: You are pretty, you know?
Don't ever compliment a woman on her beauty. She already knows she's beautiful. Don't be among the thousands of men doing such.
The best compliments is her maturity, her wears, accessories, sense of humor, intelligence, etc.
Telling a beautiful woman she's beautiful gives away 20 — 40% of your power. A woman loves a man who she's not sure if he sees her as beautiful or not. It's mystery. They love mysterious men. You've given away your power by just telling her she's beautiful.
Mistake 6: Value: Belle fit wait! Lol.
This statement you made gave value to chatting with her than your belly. It means: you care about her more than you care about your health or feedings.
When you say such things, she'll know you like and value her. Unfortunately, women don't value those who care — they value those who don't care and those are called "good-bad guys."
Making that statement you made, made you looked down on yourself. Women hate dating men who don't value themselves. This is to say, they like what doesn't come easily.
Mistake 7: Permission: Am I free to call you nunu...
Taking permission is a thing of a nice guy. Though, good-bad guys do take permissions, but in an alpha male-like manner instead of in a weak and fearful nice guy's manner.
You should've used it to tease or look for her trouble in a fun way instead of to seek for permission. This shows you like her and you're scared of her ignoring you for 5 more months. Fear make men act nice and when they act nice, they lose the woman they're acting nice for. I-don't-care make men look like bad boys. When you add some good to the bad, you become a good-bad guy and women will become attracted to you.
Mistake 8: Permission: What are you up to this evening? Maybe I could join.
The line, "Maybe I could join," is bad bad bad. It makes you appear needy and desperate. She won't allow you. Even if you're handsome, the moment you act desperate, women withdraw.
Same thing happens when a beautiful woman acts desperate or cheap — men freak out and avoid her. Those who go after her want to eat and runs.
Same thing for those who go after clueless nice guys — they want to dig their share of the gold in Mr. Clueless's bank account.