Guys, please help me. Comment
At Wetclef.com, there is always help. So, help is here. 2.
There is this girl I know from Church. Comment
From Church? Let's read see and see what happened. 3.
Before today, we have talked a little but I know she likes one of my friend, but he doesn't like her.Comment
Case closed. Women like men who don't like them. If you like them and they like another man, you'll keep struggling to get her, except you're a real GMC. 4.
So, fast forward to today, I was coming from somewhere with a friend and I saw her on the road.Comment
On the road? Is she a traffic controller? 5.
I had earlier collected her number the same day she told me to wait for her because she was going for a hall party along my area. Comment
After collecting her number did you ChatDict her? 6.
As we were going on the road, I tried to create rapport with her but I don't know if it worked.Comment
Only a pro can create instant rapport, so it didn't work. Sorry. Rapport is a process and it grows with time. Only a few people can create instant rapport. 7.
So, we decided to branch at my place (my friend also lives in the same compound) and I took her to the room of another friend.Comment
Don't you have your room? 8.
There, we saw the friend I said she likes (Bihar). He stood and left because his girlfriend was waiting for him outside.Comment
Case closed. She saw him? She's going to be defensive if you try anything. If it were in your room, then she'll open up if you use Kiss Test technique. It's contained in our TheDAVIDO Fück Guide book
Now, after he left, I tried talking to her again but she just kept on talking about Bihar. Comment
You see? What else do you want her to talk about? Ramsey Nouah? When a woman crushes a guy, the love is strong. If the guy doesn't care, the love will even become stronger. At a point, she'll get angry or jealous if she sees him with other girls. 10.
She jokingly dissed his girlfriend. Comment
It may sound like a joke to you, but she's angry, but will pretend. She's hurt deep down. Women hate rejection. Your friend had indirectly rejected her.
In the dating world, these are the things your friend unknowingly did in her brain.
1. Rejection button
2. Jealousy button
3. Anger button
4. And I-don't-care button
In fact, she has been crushed by her crush, but you won't know. 11.
So, I decided to make a move. Comment
A girl has been crushed and you're making a move? It won't work. You don't know what she's going through emotionally. Some girls will yell at you. 12.
I tried to kiss her, but she didn't allow me. Comment
Why will she allow you? Everything is wrong in this situation.
1. You didn't ChatDict her
2. You didn't TalkDict her (no strong emotional rapport)
3. She's going through rejection caused by Bihar (heartbreak)
4. You took her to another person's room (she's not comfortable)
5. Making attempts without using kiss test, gauging her body language, or turning her on first with words or a movie will come off as creepy
6. No preparation13.
After trying again, I asked her why she was behaving like a baby.Comment
Trying again will make it more creepy and desperate. Asking her is a sign of neediness. Neediness = Nice guy. No woman likes to sleep with a needy guy.
Unfortunately, most men are needy, but some have learned to suppress their urge and act as if they don't care. These men that act relaxed as if they don't care, always get what they want.
The rest act desperate and hardly get what they want. At the end of trying too many times, they get angry and walk away. What a loser! If only such a man was relaxed and take things one step at a time.14.
Then she said even if she is going to kiss, it would not be me, but my friend. Comment
You see? No woman wants a desperate man. You were too horny to act calm. Your Dïck was controlling you.
You may be an up-and-coming good-bad guy, but there are things you need to work on. Note: your confidence is solid, but you're too in a hurry and this makes you appear needy and not relaxed.15.
Meanwhile, she did say she had a boyfriend, but I didn't talk about it. Comment
All women have a boyfriend. Even those who don't have, have. Saying, "I have a boyfriend" makes women appear valuable and taken. Unavailability of a thing makes us yearn for it more.
All women instinctively know this, so they always say, "I have a boyfriend." Woo her like a GMC and watch her fall for you. This is to say, "I have a boyfriend" means "I have value. Men value me, so you TOO must value me before I'll fall for you, else, you'll think I'm cheap or no man likes me."
This is what goes on in a woman's brain and that is why they'll forever say, "I have a boyfriend" even when everyone knows they don't.
Knowing a woman is "not taken," reduces her price or value. This is why all women claim to be "taken" just to inflate their value in a man's eyes. 16.
I tried again and she said she will shout, amidst laughter.Comment
She meant it despite laughing. She's going through pains, but you're too horny and insensitive to understand what she was passing through. You only cared about yourself which is to bang her. Not bad, but you need to learn to read a woman's emotional state if you want to be extremely successful in the dating world. 17.
So, I stopped trying to kiss her and started touching her.Comment
You never give up. It's good never to give up in things, but in this case, it will come off as needy and pushy. Women don't like it. You need to sneak into Sëx, the same way you sneak into a relationship
She said I should stop that she knows if I continue, it could lead to kissing.Comment
She knows you want Sëx, but you didn't do the ground work. You just hopped into it. You can only hop into Sëx if you already have rapport and there is no obstacle on the way. In this case, you had too many obstacles. Only a loose girl will give in. 19.
I got tired at this point and stopped.Comment
I thought you won't stop. You started without an initial plan or emotional connection. Women are emotional creatures. They follow their emotions.
Since her emotion is on Bihar, she won't sleep with you, except you act like a GMC and psychologically reprogram her emotion to point your direction. 20.
She later told me and the friend she met on the road to accompany her to the party.Comment
She was really disapointed with the rejection she encountered and mostly, the jealous button that was unconsciously pressed in her brain by Bihar. 21.
Now, my question is: where did I miss it or was it because of Bihar? Because she asked me if he is still coming back.Comment
You missed it because of all the things I wrote above. She still likes him. To get her, you must be a real GMC. 22.
Or would it have been better if I took her to my room? Comment
If I have made a mistake, give me corrections.Comment
Your corrections are above. 24.
Should I still initiate chat with her?Comment
Give her space for some weeks, then resurface and ChatDict her like a GMC.
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