Bosses in the house, I need your opinion on my matter...Comment
You're welcome and your solution is ready. 2 .
There's this girl we once lived together before I gained admission. Comment
It always starts like that. That's how Telemundo started. Continue, I'm listening. 3.
We were close, but the novice me was acting like a good guy until she brotherzoned me.Comment
You deserve it. Continue. 4.
Recently, we hooked up again — albeit on Facebook and we started chatting on WhatsApp.Comment
It's getting interesting. I hope you ChatDicted her, else I pity you. Continue. 5.
But school pressure has limited the numbers of times we shared together.Comment
So, you wanted to share all your time in life together with her? You have already started investing more energy in your thoughts about her and worse, more emotional attachment.
So many great things or bad things started with an initial thought. Any man who does this more than the woman, deserves to drink a bottle of sniper after dinner. Continue, Mr. Lover boy, we're listening.6.
I went to her place twice last year and that was the only time we saw each other.Comment
Wow! Good! If only you weren't a nice guy then. In a long distance relationship or a relationship where you hardly see each other, two things happen. A.
Unavailability: this will make one person to miss the other person so much and starts investing emotion in autopilot.B.
Freedom: this will make one person to feel free like a bird and start doing what he or she likes while pretending to be feeling the same way the other person is feeling.
When they do this, they reassure themselves by saying, "Don't put your eggs in on basket." Frankly speaking, it's true. Life is full of regrets, so they don't want such. Everybody needs a backup plan. Note:
In a long distance relationship, the above is what plays out. The person who chooses option A (Mr. Nice Guy or Miss Nice Girl) is in trouble and will get hurt at the end, but the person with option B does whatever he or she likes without feeling remorseful.
People who went for option A always call people who went for option B
People who went for option B always call people who went for option A
This thing happens both in a long distance marriages or relationships. It will continue to happen as long as this world exists. It's rare to find a situation where both went for option A.
My advice to every single man is NEVER to get involved in a long distance relationship, it drains energy. The worse will be if you choose option A while the other person chooses option B. I pity whoever does that.7.
Fast forward to January, I started acting too needy, calling, and chatting her almost everyday.Comment
When you choose option A, her unavailability will amplify your infatuation which will lead to neediness, desperation, and excessive masturbation as you fantasize about having her on your bed.
For not having her on your bed or by your side, it will look as if a piece of you is missing and she's the one. At this moment, you will miss her to point of falling madly in love and before know it, you'll be obsessed in checking on her.
At this point, you've invested more emotion. There are some emotions you'll invest, it becomes an oath. This is why some people commit suicide because of love.
Something they would've avoided by choosing options B. If this said girl is the naughty type with a sense of humor, then you're doom.
A subtly naughty woman with a sense of humor make all men drool her. You'll love her until you can't think with your senses.
The distance makes her hard to get and what is hard to get is desired. Now, add this with her sense of humor and subtle naughtiness and you'll sell your soul for her. 8.
She told me she has a boyfriend and I told her it's none of my business that I only have issues with her.Comment
Hmm! I like your I-don't-care attitude, but in her mind, it comes of as desperation of a man who doesn't want to let go.
The more you cling towards a woman, the cheaper your appear. Women hate cheap behaviors from nice guys.
They'll always find a way to withdraw from him, but unfortunately, this withdrawal will make the guy love her the more.
She thinks she's running, but not knowing she's amplifying love in the nice guy's heart.
What is about to slip away is valuable. Women want a fun and naughty badass guy who is withdrawing from commitment while she pursues for him to commit, not a clingy nice guy who's pursuing her to commit while she withdraws from committing. 9.
The problem now is, she doesn't call me nor chat me up.Comment
He need to be slapped. You didn't ChatDict her. A man who doesn't ChatDict a woman is boring and shouldn't expect much from her. ChatDicted is the first first book every man and all Clefers should read.
So, you expected her to call you? No woman in her right senses would do that even if you're the cutest in town. The moment you're clingy, desperate, or needy, a woman withdraws. This happens unconsciously.
She withdrew because her subconscious mind doesn't see anything to chase. Is there anything fun in Mr. Desperate?
Where there is nothing to chase, the woman looks for something else to chase. She'd be busy trying to get the attention of another guy who isn't as good looking as you, but the good thing is, he doesn't care about her.
For not caring about her, she'll start chasing him to care. If she finally gets this guy, she'll feel great. She'll feel like she has won a trophy.
If this guy turns out to be another nice guy in the long run, she'll start chasing another guy. The process will continue until she gets to 27 or 28, then she'll start looking for a nice guy to settle down with.
By then, the bad boys must've vandalized whatever is in-between her legs.
So, don't expect a call from a girl when you're a nice guy chasing her. You'll only get a call if she'll be planning to demand for something in the upper week, then she'll call you. After two days, she'll call again to demand for what she had in mind. After getting it and in two days again, she'll revert to her old attitude of treating the nice guy like trash. 10.
I usually do the calling and initiate all the chats.Comment
What else do you expect? You're not the prize, so there is no need to call you. You'll only be the prize when she wants you to do her a favor.
After the favor, you'll continue to be her prize for two more days, then you're no longer the prize. She'll keep using you to favor the good-bad guys. They'll even make fun of you behind your back. 11.
I tried ignoring her but every time I try, I still end up calling or chatting her.Comment
You chose option A, you masturbated thinking about her, (don't deny it), so she's in your blood. That is why you can't resist her.
Take her out of your blood and watch her look like nothing in your eyes. Now, the question you'll be asking is, "How do I take her out of my blood?" You'll get an answer at the end. 12.
I figured out I need some harsh words and mentoring from gurus here to reset my brain.Comment
Because you said you need some harsh words, you've psychologically made us not to be harsh on you. You don't need some harsh words, you need
Then, I came across this forum and I hope you guys will help put me through and also horn my skills on woman issues.Comment
We have all you need. Search around the forum and you'll find. If you can't find what you're looking for, create a thread and ask.
These are the four things to do to take her out of your blood. 1. Delete:
Save her number in your Gmail account, then delete it with all her pictures from your phone. 2. Masturbation:
Stop masturbating while thinking of her. (I know you'll deny this, but trust me, you do it. Even if you will masturbate again, think of another girl. A hot one. Better yet, don't.)3. Jealousy:
Get yourself a girl more endowed and beautiful than her even if it will cost you to hire one.
Tell the hired girl your plan and she'll help you execute it. At the end, she'll be jealous despite having a boyfriend.
Jealousy is a good weapon to make women love a man. Every woman wants a man who's flaunting a lovely woman.
They'll say to themselves, "What is the magic about this man that this fine woman is dying for him. We need to find out. Maybe, he's a stallion in bed. Maybe, he's this or he's that."
As these women or this woman thinks in her brain, she's getting jealous and subconsciously falling in love with the man doing this. 4. Girlfriend:
Throw your nervousness away and get a new girlfriend by using the tips in ChatDicted, WooTalks, or FemaleSextapes book.
If this doesn't work, don't forget to try rat poison and you'll feel better on the other side.
Put a smile on your face and take action. No woman, despite her beauty is worth being miserable for.
You can be trapped by a woman into investing emotion as a nice guy. Staying in this trapped zone is a choice.
A man who stays in this trapped zone is a fool. Luckily, it's never too late to un-fool and un-trap youself.
A man who refuses to un-trap himself a wasted sperm and doesn't deserve to be called a man. He deserves to be treated like a pig.
Do you want to be a pig? If no, un-trap yourself right NOW!!! If you're unable to take action now, then you're 100% a real fool and will remain like that.