Rate this chat... She refused to ask who I am!

[AfricanbayO]

[3/18, 16:57] ‪Girl: Nope
[3/18, 17:30] Africanbayo: Oyinda, you left the chat without prior notice
[3/18, 17:31] Africanbayo: That was rude! If I were you, I would apologise
[3/18, 17:38] ‪Girl: Ohhh, m sorry sir/ ma
[3/18, 17:41] Africanbayo: Oh, that's quite rare...
[3/18, 17:41] Africanbayo: You amazed me!
[3/18, 17:42] Africanbayo: If you contest election, I will vote for u
[3/18, 18:44] ‪Girl: Awwwn, its an honor sir/ma
[3/18, 18:44] ‪Girl: Happy
[3/18, 18:44] ‪Girl: M hape
[3/18, 18:49] Africanbayo: You have a beautiful heart... I wish you are as beautiful as your heart
[3/18, 21:21] ‪Girl: Awwwwn, m now blushing o
[3/18, 21:24] Africanbayo: Haba Oyinda, you appear lively, but this ur off and on, veryyyyy bad
[3/18, 21:30] ‪Girl: Ohhh, m a very busy person
[3/18, 21:31] Africanbayo: Very busy? Even on a Sunday?
[3/18, 21:31] Africanbayo: I am sure you can't be busier than I am
[3/18, 21:37] Africanbayo: Its alright...
[3/18, 21:37] ‪Girl: Yes
[3/18, 21:43] Africanbayo: What keeps you busy Oyinda?
[3/18, 21:44] Africanbayo: Job? House chores? Marital responsibilities? Vice versa...
[3/18, 22:00] Africanbayo: If its Chevron job, I will be your Evans...
[3/19, 07:34] ‪Girl: Lolzzz
[3/19, 07:39] Africanbayo: I am not chatting I am going. Its Monday morning, and you are busy. Thanks
[3/19, 08:06] ‪Girl: Ohh, angry right
[3/19, 08:06] ‪Girl: M so sorry
[3/19, 08:17] Africanbayo: Not at all ma'am
[3/19, 08:17] Africanbayo: Its Monday, and its understandable
[3/19, 08:19] Africanbayo: I am now officially your friend... Do have a lovely day ahead
[3/20, 07:07] ‪Girl: Morning, how was your night
[3/20, 08:35] Africanbayo: My night was splendid, how was yours?
[3/20, 08:36] Africanbayo: Guess your day was hectic yesterday!
[3/20, 19:47] ‪Girl: Yup
[3/20, 20:10] Africanbayo: Oyinda...
[3/21, 09:08] ‪Girl: Morning boss
[3/21, 09:14] Africanbayo: Oyinda u are not serious o
[3/21, 09:15] ‪Girl: Ha
[3/21, 09:15] ‪Girl: Waht I do
[3/21, 09:16] Africanbayo: Lolz. Iwo ehn...
[3/21, 09:17] Africanbayo: Continue...
[3/21, 09:19] ‪Girl: Hmmm
[3/21, 09:20] Africanbayo: Hmm ko, hmm ni.
[3/21, 09:20] Africanbayo: Is this how to keep a friend
[3/21, 09:20] Africanbayo: I am angry o
[3/21, 09:21] ‪Girl: Why
[3/21, 09:21] ‪Girl: M sorry
[3/21, 09:22] Africanbayo: That word "sorry" is never difficult for you to say. Omo Dada ni e
[3/21, 09:22] Africanbayo: Lolz
[3/21, 09:23] Africanbayo: Oya, go and be busy again...
[3/21, 09:28] ‪Girl: Lolzzz
[3/21, 09:31] Africanbayo: Stop lolzzing me jo
[3/21, 09:32] Africanbayo: Your pix on ur dp
[3/21, 11:26] ‪Girl: Yeah
[3/21, 11:28] Africanbayo: I need a bolder one...
[3/21, 13:13] ‪Girl: Nope
[3/21, 13:18] Africanbayo: Hmmm...
[3/21, 16:02] ‪Girl: Yea
[3/21, 20:28] Africanbayo: Been on a journey...
[3/21, 20:28] Africanbayo: The network here sucks
[3/21, 20:34] ‪Girl: How was the journey
[3/21, 20:36] Africanbayo: Very fine... Although boring
[3/21, 20:36] Africanbayo: How are you today?
[3/21, 20:52] ‪Girl: M good
[3/21, 21:11] Africanbayo: You know what Oyinda, you appear very intelligent to me
[3/21, 21:11] Africanbayo: But a bit naughty...
[3/21, 22:01] ‪Girl: Lolzzz
[3/21, 22:06] Africanbayo: Lolzing abi, you know urself...
[3/21, 22:07] Africanbayo: A little bit of naughtiness is good.
[3/21, 22:09] ‪Girl: Wow, thanks
[3/21, 22:10] Africanbayo: Thanks that you are naughty abi? Continue
[3/21, 22:10] ‪Girl: When I don't know what to say nkor
[3/21, 22:12] Africanbayo: Oro e ti sumi Oyin! Naso you go dey say sorry even before anything happens ... Lolz
[3/21, 22:30] ‪Girl: Haaa
[3/21, 22:36] Africanbayo: Before you flee from the chat, let me say good night o.
[3/22, 09:58] ‪Girl: My gosh
[3/22, 09:58] ‪Girl: Can't stop laughing o
[3/22, 10:41] Africanbayo: I am in Ibadan for a prog
[3/22, 10:42] Africanbayo: Will leave for Lagos this evening...
[3/22, 10:42] Africanbayo: Expecting a journey mercy wish from you by then...
[3/22, 12:27] ‪Girl: Safe journey dear
[3/22, 12:57] Africanbayo: Amen. Thanks dear
[3/22, 19:50] ‪Girl: How was the journey
[3/22, 19:50] ‪Girl: There already
[3/22, 20:52] Africanbayo: Oyinda, so kind of you dear...
[3/22, 20:52] Africanbayo: I am worn and stressed...
[3/22, 20:53] Africanbayo: Still at Redeemed Camp...
[3/22, 20:53] Africanbayo: Only God know when I will get to Lagos
[3/22, 22:21] ‪Girl: Eeyah
[3/22, 22:21] ‪Girl: Sorry ehn
[3/22, 22:29] Africanbayo: Thanks Oyin, just entering Lag.
[3/22, 22:29] Africanbayo: Would be home in 30mins time
[3/22, 22:30] Africanbayo: Do have a lovely night, before you escape again!
[3/22, 22:59] ‪Girl: Lolzzz,when I no be hen
[3/22, 23:40] Africanbayo: Mo mon iwa ara ile mi, kise ebu. Lolz
[3/23, 07:23] ‪Girl: Hmmm
[3/23, 07:23] ‪Girl: Morning
[3/23, 07:23] ‪Girl: Your night
[3/23, 07:32] Africanbayo: You and hmmm
[3/23, 07:32] Africanbayo: Hope your night was splendid?
[3/23, 07:54] Africanbayo: Where has this naughty girl ran to again for amadioha sake!
[3/24, 20:38] Africanbayo: I sure have overstayed my welcome right?
[3/24, 20:39] Africanbayo: Its nice being your friend for 7 days.
[3/24, 20:39] Africanbayo: Do take care of your self...
[3/24, 22:22] ‪Girl: Amadioha bibo
[3/24, 22:22] ‪Girl: See this one o, person wey no get light for phone dey chat ni
[3/25, 13:18] Africanbayo: Lolz... Your sins are forgiven, so go and sin no more
[3/26, 00:12] ‪Girl: Lolzzz
[3/26, 00:12] ‪Girl: Happy Palm Sunday
[3/26, 08:33] Africanbayo: You barely stay online Oyinda... Happy Easter in advance
[3/26, 08:35] Africanbayo: One day, I will hook you down on this WhatsApp and you ll have nowhere to run too. In fact, I will sit on top of you!
[3/26, 18:28] ‪Girl: Kilode
[3/26, 18:28] ‪Girl: When I no be chair
[3/26, 18:32] Africanbayo: Iwo ma worry
[3/26, 18:33] ‪Girl: Toor
[3/26, 18:33] ‪Girl: Motigbo o
[3/26, 18:33] Africanbayo: Are you afraid you may break... With your tiny body
[3/26, 18:33] Africanbayo:
[3/26, 18:33] Africanbayo: Melo Lara e gan
[3/26, 18:34] Africanbayo:
[3/26, 18:35] ‪Girl: Mofoo
[3/26, 18:35] Africanbayo: But sincerely Oyinda, you need more flesh!
[3/26, 18:36] ‪Girl: Hun
[3/26, 18:36] ‪Girl: See talk
[3/26, 18:37] Africanbayo: I know truth is bitter and painful, but we got to say it... Lolz
[3/26, 18:39] ‪Girl: Mr truth eshey o
[3/26, 18:39] ‪Girl: Oloto ilu
[3/26, 18:40] Africanbayo: Okare lai, omo agba nie
[3/26, 18:40] ‪Girl: Kepe o
[3/26, 18:40] Africanbayo: So, hope you have a stress free day
[3/26, 18:41] ‪Girl: Nope and you
[3/26, 18:41] Africanbayo: Stress and Lagos are Siamese twin... So, I am still in the stress
[3/26, 18:42] ‪Girl: Eeyah
[3/26, 18:42] ‪Girl: Traffic ko niyen
[3/26, 18:43] Africanbayo: Stress is however not bad for people like us, cow we are plumpy and have thick body...
[3/26, 18:43] Africanbayo: Yes my dear.... It's killing
[3/26, 18:43] ‪Girl: Hmmm, that's why you are always in traffic
[3/26, 18:44] ‪Girl: All that your plumpy and thick body will thin there
[3/26, 18:45] Africanbayo: Lol, naughty girl. Oti leke ebu ju Oyonda
[3/26, 18:45] Africanbayo: Oyinda
[3/26, 18:46] ‪Girl: Eke ebu keh
[3/26, 18:46] Africanbayo: Hope you didn't look for anybody trouble today...
[3/26, 18:47] Africanbayo: Sha tell me before you leave the chat, otherwise, I will punish ni o
[3/26, 18:50] ‪Girl: When m not trouble finder
[3/26, 18:52] Africanbayo: All those sharp mouth you have been using to abuse me nko...
[3/26, 18:53] Africanbayo: Don't worry I won't spank you cos you are an intelligent lady...
[3/26, 20:18] ‪Girl: Mr spanker
[3/26, 20:19] ‪Girl: Runaway Mr
[3/26, 21:07] Africanbayo: I know you are afraid of my spanking, but you won't escape it... I promise
[3/26, 21:10] Africanbayo: Oya, come back, I am only playing with you dear...
[3/26, 21:43] ‪Girl: Arbi m the one dah will spank you
[3/26, 21:45] Africanbayo: When it comes to spanking, omode ni e Oyinda
[3/26, 21:46] Africanbayo: So, you are pardoned...
[3/26, 22:33] ‪Girl: Hun
[3/26, 22:33] ‪Girl: You better tender your official apology letter or else
[3/27, 06:10] Africanbayo: Anyways, it's necessary truly, cos of eyin iya you know. Lolz
[3/27, 06:11] Africanbayo: Good morning dear. Do have a lovely day ahead
[3/27, 21:19] ‪Girl: Evening
[3/27, 21:19] ‪Girl: How was your day
[3/27, 21:19] ‪Girl: Hope its stressful, lolzzz
[3/27, 21:20] ‪Girl: Just wanna check on you
[3/27, 21:32] Africanbayo: O serious Oyinda
[3/27, 21:32] Africanbayo: You don't miss me abi
[3/27, 21:33] Africanbayo: Just run away as usual you hear
[3/27, 21:33] Africanbayo: The way I will spank you hen.. No be here
[3/28, 08:34] ‪Girl: Me miss you
[3/28, 08:34] ‪Girl: Laye
[3/28, 08:45] Africanbayo: Really, iyen na fine...
[3/28, 08:46] Africanbayo: No problem,
[3/29, 13:46] ‪Girl: Hello
[3/29, 16:18] Africanbayo: Oyinda toh pretty
[3/29, 16:18] Africanbayo: So wapa, hope you are not blushing!
[3/29, 16:19] Africanbayo: Cos, I don't really think you are that pretty oh
[3/29, 16:19] Africanbayo: The rain, hope it didn't touch you?
[3/29, 18:41] ‪Girl: I pretty pa
[3/29, 18:41] ‪Girl: At all
[3/29, 18:53] Africanbayo: Pretty my foot...
[3/29, 18:54] Africanbayo: Naughty girl... If any deceives you, I won't be part of them
[3/29, 18:55] Africanbayo: Hope you didn't find any trouble today?
[3/29, 18:56] Africanbayo: Guess what?
[3/29, 19:18] ‪Girl: Me o m not trouble finder
[3/29, 19:20] Africanbayo: U are finding my trouble
[3/29, 19:21] Africanbayo: But, don't worry, daddy won't spank u
[3/29, 20:57] ‪Girl: So you think m finding your trouble
[3/29, 21:01] ‪Girl: If I find your trouble once you will prostate gbalaja to beg me ni
[3/29, 21:09] ‪Girl: You are now in ib
[3/29, 21:11] Africanbayo: What does this opelenge even thought herself to be self. Eru okinba e ni
[3/29, 21:13] Africanbayo: Don't worry, I am thinking of a good punishment for you, and you will be begging me when I am doing it....
[3/29, 21:16] Africanbayo: Melo Lara e gan!
[3/29, 21:52] ‪Girl: Mofoo
[3/29, 21:55] Africanbayo: Iwo ma worry...
[3/29, 21:56] Africanbayo:
[3/29, 22:01] ‪Girl: Igara turkey
[3/29, 22:03] Africanbayo: You need spanking Oyinda. Serious one
[3/29, 22:04] Africanbayo: I know you ll soon run away, since u no get liver
[3/29, 22:04] ‪Girl: Mr spanker its a free world
[3/29, 22:04] Africanbayo: Bad girl...
[3/29, 22:05] ‪Girl: Eni to ba se ohun ti enikan o seri ma ri ohun tenikan o riri
[3/29, 22:05] Africanbayo: You no what, just move closer, don't run o.... Watch me
[3/29, 22:05] ‪Girl: Oya
[3/29, 22:06] ‪Girl: Go on soun
[3/29, 22:06] Africanbayo: Who taught her Yoruba... Lolz
[3/29, 22:06] ‪Girl: See him o as if I be igbo
[3/29, 22:06] Africanbayo: Oyinda, oti yankan momi lowo. Naughty girl
[3/29, 22:06] ‪Girl: I be confirm omo oko yoruba
[3/29, 22:07] ‪Girl: Lolzzz
[3/29, 22:07] Africanbayo: Don't be afraid... Wont spank u again
[3/29, 22:07] ‪Girl: Kini
[3/29, 22:07] Africanbayo: Let's sit and discuss
[3/29, 22:08] ‪Girl: If you no spank me na wahala o
[3/29, 22:08] ‪Girl: No ngbo
[3/29, 22:08] Africanbayo: Se emi e gbe
[3/29, 22:08] Africanbayo: Oyindaaaaaa.
[3/29, 22:09] ‪Girl: Yeahn
[3/29, 22:09] Africanbayo: Don't worry, I don't want you to break o
[3/29, 22:10] Africanbayo: I will have pity on you. Just beg me
[3/29, 22:10] Africanbayo: Lobatan
[3/29, 22:11] ‪Girl: No
[3/29, 22:11] ‪Girl: No no no
[3/29, 22:12] Africanbayo: Can I ask you a question?
[3/29, 22:12] ‪Girl: Sure
[3/29, 22:12] Africanbayo: My naughty Oyinda
[3/29, 22:13] ‪Girl: Don't bribe me
[3/29, 22:14] Africanbayo: Answer now, I will still spank u
[3/29, 22:14] ‪Girl: Dah lady fa
[3/29, 22:15] Africanbayo: See this one... Who dey deceive u
[3/29, 22:16] Africanbayo: My problem with you is that, na only starting u get!
[3/29, 22:18] ‪Girl: Meaning I no get finishing niyen o
[3/29, 22:19] Africanbayo: Na lie I talk
[3/29, 22:20] ‪Girl: Lie bibo
[3/29, 22:20] Africanbayo: So it's true... Why are u making mouth before
[3/29, 22:21] Africanbayo: Naughty girl...
[3/29, 22:21] ‪Girl: God I will beat this boy o
[3/29, 22:22] Africanbayo: Lolz... See this lepa. Can u even dare
[3/29, 22:24] Africanbayo: See, I am tying only towel, if in the course of beating me, my towel fall, you fit wait? Talk true o
[3/29, 22:47] ‪Girl: Hmmm
[3/29, 22:47] ‪Girl: Lemme run go meet my boyfriend
[3/29, 22:48] ‪Girl:
[3/29, 22:55] Africanbayo: Naughty girl... Just go you hear. I will not play with you again...
[3/29, 22:55] Africanbayo: Good night
[3/30, 21:18] ‪Girl: Mr spanker
[3/30, 21:25] Africanbayo: Promise me you will not run away!..
Rate my performance and profer way forward @ AnswerMachine

[AnswerMachine]

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[AnswerMachine]

1. From your chat, you haven't read ChatDicted.
2. Too many fearful commentst
3. You're chatting like a pastor's son and you're scared to say something raw for fear of being cautioned.
4. You seek for approval at some point.
5. The only fun things in the chat are: A: Naughty and B: You're not pretty.
6. Since you're a pastor's son, the chat is manageable, but for a GMC, its 33/100.

[AnswerMachine]

Note: It's better this way than being a total nice guy. Though, too many niceness in your chats. You're chatting according to the will of God. Good! But in the dating world any chat that abides by the will of God is boring to women. It's not my fault, but women.

Now, amend based on what you can inject into the chat or keep it holy like that. Remember, despite how holy a single lady is in the open, she's secretly messing with an unholy bad boy because that bad boy is speaking her language - which is the naughty language. As a brother in Christ, she's going to caution you, but she already has a holy first impression about you. I know why you're struggling and why you may never become a GMC. Holiness is the cause. The naughty language is the emotional language women listen to.

In you're case, you're scared to speak it. She mentioned her boyfriend in the chat and if that guy is a GMC, then forget her. The dating world is corrupt. It's like Nigerian politics and following it with holiness or pretending to be a saint to retain a reputation will make you carry last in politics and in the dating world. If you can't amend, then dating is not for you.

Give to caesar what belongs to him. If you send the number of this girl you're scared to open up to GMC and he shows you the chat between him and her in months ahead, you won't believe it. My advice is: either become a GMC or stick to your normal sister Mary's chat. The reason this reply seem harsh is because you've been a member of this forum for long, but it seems you're compounded with fear. God doesn't like a fearful son. Take away fear or at least, suppress it and you'll see how things will change for you.

[AfricanbayO]

Nice one. You are the best, but my rating is not too fair. Lolz

[AfricanbayO]

From the look of things, does it appear that this lady understand the "Spanking" language I said repeatedly?

[AnswerMachine]

Yes, she does, but you're scared of delivering your lines with confidence. You're scared of offending her. You seek for too many permissions. You act as if you don't want to lose her. You worry about her going offline too much. Your experience about the girl you sent The Naughty Tiger and she told you she doesn't read such books is affecting you. Her reply has put fear in you. It's sad, but true.

And also, you have NEVER implemented anything in our free ChatDicted book and this makes me feel you haven't read it. You're just freestyling your chat without a foundation. We encourage freestyling your chat, but ChatDicted is a foundation. Until you have a strong foundation in anything you do in life, you may never go beyond mediocre. You may have read ChatDicted, but you haven't implemented anything from it except "I'll spank you and naughty girl."

The root of your problems are: 1. Lack of implementing what is contained in ChatDicted and 2. Fear of offending a girl by playing it safe. Only men who take risks succeed. Only pastors who dare the devil succeed. You can't be in your comfort zone and expect success in life. A man needs to break some bottles, hearts, or offend some people before he can succeed. Failure of doing the above will keep a man in mediocrity. A word is enough for the wise.

[AnswerMachine]

Nice one. You are the best, but my rating is not too fair. Lolz

Your rating is not fair because I'm angry with you. My anger is because we made half of ChatDicted 1.0 free, yet you haven't implemented anything from it except "naughty girl and spank."

If the book wasn't for free, it would've been understandable why you couldn't read it, but in this case, a whooping 190 pages is made free, but you didn't see the value in it by using it to build a solid foundation. For you to be good in mathematics you must learn simple multiplication, division, subtraction, etc.

The reason some people say mathematics is hard is because they have never spent quality time mastering the foundation. These people who refused to lay a solid foundation are fond of believing in trials and errors. When they're tired of using trials and errors in solving an equation, but didn't get the answer they needed, they'll either say, "mathematics is hard and our clueless teacher is even making it harder." At this point, they either continue with trials and errors technique or give up.

In politics, Buhari doesn't have a solid leadership foundation despite being in politics for more than 40 years. When a man doesn't have a solid foundation, he'll remain a mediocre. Younger kids who focus on building a solid foundation will come and outshine him. At the end, the man who refused to build a solid foundation will become angry with any new comer who out-performs him.

So, I gave you a poor score because you have ignored laying a chatting foundation via ChatDicted, but putting everything into the hands of the holy spirit to lead. In the dating world, the only thing that can save you is firstly, having a solid foundation, secondly, using your solid foundation to come up with something unique to fit your personality, then thirdly, putting the remainder into the hands of holy spirit - if you're religious.

I went political and religious with your replies because your chat is trying to be politically correct and religiously perfect. In life, trying to be 100% politically correct and 100% religiously perfect with your words is the beginning of failure. In your chats, you were trying too hard to obey your pastor by not using raw languages. It's good to obey your pastor, but know that in the dating world, it's boring.

Now ask yourself this question. One day, will I marry my pastor or the woman I'm chatting with? The answer to the above question will let you know if you should chat with her in your pastor's language or in women's naughty language. The choice is yours. As I earlier said, I'm being too religious because your chat is in pastor's language and it's the worst language to use with women during courtship.

Pastor's language should be kept till you get married to her and expecting a child. To get women hooked and attracted to you, you must be a naughty good-bad guy. When you have gotten her with your good-bad guy tactics, you can switch to acting like a saint after marriage. If you start acting like a saint too early during courtship and change during marriage to an abusive man, a woman will call you a wicked pretender.

The best way is to be a naughty and raw good-bad guy during courtship, then change to a pastor-like man during marriage. In this case, she'll see you as a man who has been transformed by God form his bad ways to good ways. People who act too innocent and too Godly too early are always wicked pretenders. The best people are those immoral ones whom at a point in their lives change from evil to good. Your chat is a pretentious chat. Show your true naughty color by sneaking into it, but change later, not now.

[charagher]

Op ur chat was very wacked



it was towards da end dat da chart was coming to lyf.